New iVillage article-Could You Please Control Your Child?
You know that stare? That annoyed stare that passersby, strangers and even family members give to let you know (what you already know) that you’ve completely lost control of your child? All moms know it. When my son was little he hated stores, any stores—Starbucks, Rite Aid, even my beloved Target. Maybe it was something about the shared air or the music that piped in from the ceiling, but he sensed the difference in atmosphere the second we entered. He screamed. He wailed. Sometimes fellow shoppers (likely other mothers) would help me out, give me the “go ahead” to cut them in line, or even unload my purchases onto the belt to speed me through. Most people just stared though, with that judgmental air of superiority. Their eyes were saying, “Tsk, tsk, you are a sucky parent! I could handle this sooo much better than you.” Some pairs of eyes simply stated “Shut that kid up!” What was I supposed to do? Stop getting groceries or, even more unthinkably, give up my non-fat, no-foam grande latte?
I remember being mortified after the first couple of episodes… Read more: http://parenting.ivillage.com/gs/gsbehavior/0,,g67prcgc,00.html#ixzz0W2OgU4UO
(Sorry, I am not allowed to reprint the article on my site.)
Don’t forget to check in on today’s Nickelodeon ParentsConnect “Me Time Challange” I don’t have time to: Go to the Doctor!
